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August 2008 Archives

mynerdgirl
Orange, CA

On 08/04/2008 at 11:39 am PST
nerdgirl asked:
Dear Dr. Ando, I am a bi-sexual woman in a monogamous relationship with a man. I love my guy and have no desire to be with another man. However, It has been a while since I have been with a girl and I still have strong urges to be with a sexy woman. Most of my sexual fantasies involve being with woman or being in a threesome with my man and a woman. My question is how do I go about finding a woman who would want to have a threesome with my guy and me? How do I know if a girl is into this type of thing without embarrassing myself or losing a good friend? If I do find such a girl what are some of the possible issues that I need to consider? I have never been one for sleeping around with many partners and enjoy close intimate relationships. Therefore, I would love to have the best of both worlds (A committed relationship with one man and one woman.) But, I am not sure what the relationship would need to be like between my guy and new girl for this to work out. Is this an unusual set up? I have never met anyone with this type of relationship before. Do these types of relationships ever work out? Do bi-sexual girls have to choose? Sincerely, Want my cake and eat it too

mynerdgirl
Orange, CA

On 08/06/2008 at 05:07 pm PST
nerdgirl asked:
Hey, Dr. Ando, I have heard women hit their sexual peak after 30. I'm almost there and actually I am quite looking forward to thirty for a few reasons. I've known many women that either cannot orgasm or can't without external stimulation. Is this a biological issue or is it about experience? Can something be done to change it or is it a simple matter of waiting for nature to take its course?